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Don’t try to change your partners!

Very often people are starving to change something in other people, particularly when dating someone. As a rule, these efforts are fruitless. The best thing to do is to try to deal with an imperfection you see in your mate. Also, don't try to change someone too early in a relationship. If it's even possible to change someone, you need to earn that right and not to do it during the first meeting. Here are several reasons not to try to change someone: first of all, people hate it – if you are not content with the behavior and mode of existence of your partner - be sure, it's not going to work out - whether you try to change him/her or not. Secondly, your differences should complement each other. You may think differently, but there's really no need to try to change one another. The differences actually turn into positives. No doubt, if you're trying to change someone, you are indirectly telling him/her that you don't love him/her the way they are. You are in love with the person you are trying to turn your ‘beloved’ into. Sometimes changing someone is simply a waste of time and nerves – on wasting a year or two in vain remember the proverb: ‘there’s no use crying over spilt milk’. It happens that after some time of dating a person earns the right to ask his/her partner to change. So, if you want to change anything, you need to wait until you earned the right to suggest change. And believe this time will certainly come... They say before altering someone, at first alter yourself and your attitude to the things you don’t like in someone’s character. Patience and flexibility are the best traits that can assist in problems solving and maintaining of healthy relationship and perspective dating.


 
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