Relationship between the representatives of different cultures must be sound and rational. Nevertheless, sometimes when dating in Ukraine people understand they are too different and they can hardly stand each other. If one is thinking of separating, there are many lessons that need to be analyzed before separating from each other, and who knows, may be it will be possible to save a relationship….
First of all, one should analyze his own behavior to see how he/she might have contributed to the problem. At that, may be one party was not communicating its needs clearly and effectively as an adult and was suppressing his/her partner or complaining and criticizing. One may have been criticizing or complaining causing the other party to feel unaccepted. Sometimes it happens that when dating people are playing roles such as the child, the parent, the savior, the rebel, the teacher which may affect another partner’s feelings and cause problems in future.
So, one might need to learn more effective, assertive and loving communicating. Some attachments sometimes bother people, especially when dating – they increase our conflicts with others and diminish happiness. The only way out of this maze is to let them go. Besides, examining behavior that might be annoying the other is really a great idea. Moreover, one should free oneself from subconscious programming, which limits our self-esteem and ability to attract the behaviors that we deserve.
Although we need to make every possible step to heal our relationships, if a relationship breaks down, there is still much we can learn and avoid making the same mistakes in future.
Relationship and dating are two interrelated notions that constantly coexist. It usually happens in Ukraine that when dating with a representative of different mentality people not only learn to understand other’s personality and needs, but also become aware of their own shortcomings and finally manage to hear the inner voice of their soul.